Dear diary, let me tell you about my day. Let me have a space to be fully vulnerable. Let me chronicle who I am and how I change and grow.

Journaling is a valuable tool that I've graciously incorporated into my life. It gives you space to be yourself without judgment and to identify feelings. Journaling relieves stress, helps you notice patterns in your life, and can soothe intense emotions. I've also found encouragement in starting to journal.

When I go through life's moments of distress, it's always helped me to turn towards the paper. I don't think there's ever been a time when I didn't feel at least a little better after writing down everything that bothered or upset me. I eventually recognize the things in my life that cause constant stress and address the issue. When you write in your journal, you may notice patterns looking back at previous entries. It's a great way to hold accountability. Writing thoughts down on paper records things that persistently generate joy, or even, unwelcome ill feelings. If being around a person or place makes you feel negative consistently, you may realize that you may not want to be around such circumstances anymore. As you look back, you recognize things you like and dislike. It's an awareness that perhaps you may not have gained otherwise. Recognizing patterns can be a catalyst to redirect in ways that make you happier and healthier.

When you journal, you create a space only you have access to. Nobody can judge you. You can express whatever you need to freely. Having such a private space allows you to talk about anything you want! Journaling encourages vulnerability and enables you to address your thoughts and feelings without anxiety about what other people may think. You can be completely honest with yourself about any experience throughout your day. With a scribble, emotions no longer need to be held inside. They flow outward and become able to be felt. Journals are a place for you to be yourself without fear. The ability to be open soothes stress tremendously.

Starting to journal feels so time-consuming at first. For me, the key was to romanticize it. To make it something I look forward to doing every day. I got myself a leather journal that I love dearly. I also went to a local store and got a fountain pen that I would always want to use (fountain pens are a lot of fun). I wanted every part of the practice to be something that was calming to me. I recommend getting a notebook you like. Make it one that you look forward to using. Get a pen you enjoy with a color of ink you think looks pretty. Add parts of your personality to your practice.

In the end, journaling is all about you!

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